Please be patient with me

I have made a mess with my blog as you can see. I saved my original template, but for some reason it just sits there saying connecting and never brings my template up.. So i am trying to figure out how to either get that half a third column off or fix it to show all of it. If anyone knows how to fix it let me know. I am puzzles. I realy did want a three column blog.. But oh well can't have it all. Have a great night.